Women Lines

It was a thought provoking article on 24 of Jan, in Life section of Times of India-’So what you do?http://epaper.timesofindia.com/Archive/skins/pastissues2/navigator.asp?AW=1264986676921

It reflected the inner quest of individuals to question themselves are they happy of what they are doing? What type of job one dreams for and what type of job one gets is not necessary to be same. Its really a troublesome question for many individuals while they are being asked about the question that are they enjoying their work….what things they enjoy….are they aware of things which they enjoy…..

Women are known for their passion for everything they do, whether its family, work or anything  and if they work in the field where their heart lies then they are more passionate for everything in their life. Every individual has some inner passion for some work which brings twinkle in their eyes. May be you are  working but you were in love with   poetry, or sketching  or some other hobby which fills you with more energy and life in comparison to your job and then you love to talk more about it than your work. I am not saying that stop working and follow your hobby, but be in touch within yourself.

I just loved the answer when one women said to the question”Madam what you do?”…she said”I love dancing and professionally I am a banker!”. Financial independence gives you security in life and every women should work for it but your passion for your hobby fills you with more happiness in life that will help you to live your life with more contentment so stop leading life as a robot…search that source of happiness within yourself and be happy so that you can make your family happy!

Are you taking your parenting job very seriously?

Then you might be coming in smothering parent category with !

Take a break. Parenting is not a project to be finished with perfection. Its a life long journey and it has to be dealt with its requirement as and when needed.  Give space to your kids and to yourself too.

Parenting has become a big subject in today’s society and there are abundant books, classes, coaches, to guide you how to be a successful parent. But mind you, if your kid is observing you tensed and always worried . about some issue relating to him,whether its his studies, or diet or even hobby class he will never like it. He will more be pleased if he is observing you happy and contended with your life and taking it easily. Don’t create complications and unnecessary pressure for yourself by trying to be a cop parent.

Kids find their parents as their role model and they will exactly behave as you behave in your life. This should be warning signal for you  as whatever emotions also you are going through will effect him and will replicate you same way when he will grow up.

Start checking yourself if you are interfering in your kid’s life too much. Don’t always be bothered if he is not keeping up perfectly to everything you want from him. Let him be a normal individual who can also make mistakes and learn from them.

Life will be more full of happiness and love around if every individual is  having space for themselves and enjoying it individually under their own capacity.So stop being a smothering parent and let some oxygen come in between your life.