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Jan 17 2011

Blackberry Messenger Bonding!

I never thought of writing a phone review!    483_1

But Blackberry is really too good to be ignored.Features attached with Blackberry are really helpful and can make life  easier for all those workaholics. Specially the Blackberry messenger(BBM). Believe me friends its amazing and you won’t believe how it is helping in maintaining far distance relationships. In relationships what matters is communication and when we are far  at times feel so desperate to talk somebody who is close to us. Blackberry messenger comes to your rescue and connects you to your sweetheart, friend or anybody who is connected to you via blackberry.

Alright, for all those newcomers who are coming across blackberry messenger first time, BlackBerry Messenger is an instant messenger program for BlackBerry-to-BlackBerry communication utilizing your PIN code.BlackBerry Messenger is built into some of the newer devices. If your device does not come preloaded with BlackBerry Messenger, you can download it at http://www.blackberry.com/messengerthrough Internet Explorer or your Blackberry Browser. You cannot download it through FireFox Browser and the good news is Blackberry messenger is FREE to use.Isn’t it tempting!

BlackBerry Messenger is easy to set up, simple to use, and flat out gets the job done when it comes to sending quick messages to another BlackBerry user or even a group of users.
One of the things that I like most about BlackBerry Messenger is that all BlackBerry users are able to use it.

It can really help you to share your comments, snaps in one go and then that helps you to build a strong relationship. You have dressed up in your best dress and want to share that moment with your loved one, instantly you send a snap to your loved one for his reaction….its so fast and then you get the reaction instantly. You want to buy  something and want to know your hubby’s reaction to it…check through BBM. In such hectic life all those precious moments can be shared instantly and with more effect with your special ones.Any relationship can be made stronger with right use of messenger.Relatives, friends, fiancee, mother, father anybody. Its really cool to use!

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Feb 06 2010

What are you doing in life?

Published by Charu M under Self improvement

It was a thought provoking article on 24 of Jan, in Life section of Times of India-’So what you do?http://epaper.timesofindia.com/Archive/skins/pastissues2/navigator.asp?AW=1264986676921

It reflected the inner quest of individuals to question themselves are they happy of what they are doing? What type of job one dreams for and what type of job one gets is not necessary to be same. Its really a troublesome question for many individuals while they are being asked about the question that are they enjoying their work….what things they enjoy….are they aware of things which they enjoy…..

Women are known for their passion for everything they do, whether its family, work or anything  and if they work in the field where their heart lies then they are more passionate for everything in their life. Every individual has some inner passion for some work which brings twinkle in their eyes. May be you are  working but you were in love with   poetry, or sketching  or some other hobby which fills you with more energy and life in comparison to your job and then you love to talk more about it than your work. I am not saying that stop working and follow your hobby, but be in touch within yourself.

I just loved the answer when one women said to the question”Madam what you do?”…she said”I love dancing and professionally I am a banker!”. Financial independence gives you security in life and every women should work for it but your passion for your hobby fills you with more happiness in life that will help you to live your life with more contentment so stop leading life as a robot…search that source of happiness within yourself and be happy so that you can make your family happy!

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Jan 22 2010

Emotional Freedom Technique-EFT

Published by Charu M under Self improvement

Womenlines has started a series on various holistic ways for healing and relaxing yourself when you are stressed out while in mad cat race!

Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) is an emotional,needle free version of acupuncture that is based on new discoveries regarding the connection between your body’s subtle energies, your emotions, and your health. EFT has been reported successful in thousands of cases covering a huge range of emotional, health and performance issues.It often works where nothing else will.

Womenlines asked Lena Chen, a Holistic Therapist, about the importance of EFT and its origination.She answered to following questions as-

Q1-What is EFT?
LENA- Emotional Freedom Techniques, or EFT for short, is a DIY accupressure tool that can be used anywhere, anytime for cleansing negative blocks in our energy system that contribute to physical and emotional stresses. Aside from looking strange, the enormous advantage EFT has is that it is easy to use and works for almost all kinds of issues including back pain, headaches, insomnia, depression, PTSD, etc. It is a very gentle way of healing oneself, and yet, often produces immediate results, especially for phobias and physical pains.

Q2-How long you know about EFT?

LENA-I was introduced to EFT in a 2-day Energy Psychology course and was immediately fascinated by how it is seemingly simple, yet effective for such a large range of issues. I went back home feeling like I just gained a superhero power! I use it on everything… sprains, mood swings, inspiration blocks, even for my husband’s snoring, and because of EFT, I overcame my fear of public speaking and was eventually giving EFT workshops to large groups of people, including over 100! Best of all, I was receiving immense satisfaction from using EFT with my clients and watching them gain confidence and freedom in their lives by using this incredible tool.

Q-Who is the founder of EFT ?

LENA- EFT is the result of East meets West. It originated from principles of Traditional Chinese Medicine which have been around for centuries, and was first developed into a system by Roger Callahan, which is known as Thought Field Therapy, an extensive and complicated system that is used mainly by professionals. It was only in the 1980s, that one of his first students, Gary Craig, simplified the system into a one that is much more accessible and yet equally effective – EFT.

Q6-How this technique is different from other relaxing technique?

LENA-Like other relaxation techniques such as breathing, meditation, yoga, etc, EFT often produces a relaxation effect in the person. The difference is that EFT has the potential to clear negative emotions, thoughts and beliefs as well as bodily discomforts on the spot, when that is the intention of the person doing EFT. For example, when a person is having a headache, he can do EFT directly on the headache and experience immediate relief on the pain. In addition, he may also become aware of the emotional issue that is underlying the headache. For example, he may recall a stressful conversation that he had with his mother in the morning. He can then continue to do EFT for any remaining stress that he has relating to that event, and afterwards, see the event in a whole new light. Hence, EFT can help us to clear our emotional baggage, layer by layer, which will then create positive shifts in our self-esteem, relationships, health and other areas of our life. With other techniques, there is often willpower and discipline involved in creating the change. With EFT, aside from needing effort to do EFT itself, change comes about naturally and effortlessly.

Q7-How you teach this concept to your participants?

LENA- In my workshops, I teach EFT by first introducing to my participants essential concepts on energy, the mind-body connection, and healing. Then I teach them the EFT procedure, and intersperse the hands-on exercises with tips on how to do EFT more effectively. I emphasise greatly on letting participants have their own experience of EFT, and I get them to practice it in the week after the first session. When we meet again, they share their experiences with me, and I help to fine-tune their understanding of EFT applications to their life. I also bring participants through a special EFT process to increase their confidence and motivation in using EFT as an integral part of their life for their healing, so a great majority of my participants actually leave my workshops highly empowered to use this tool to transform themselves and their lives.

Q8-Do you organize workshops?

LENA-Aside from organising basic EFT workshops, I also organise workshops for using EFT in specific areas. An upcoming one is “EFT with Lena Workshop Series: Become a Money Magnet – Clearing Your Money Blocks To Allow Abundance To Flow Into Your Life Easily and Joyfully”, which will be held on 30 January. You will find more information on my website www.lenashealinghaven.com. Another workshop that I am planning in March is “EFT with Lena Workshop Series: Using EFT and Energy Psychology to Help Others More Powerfully” which will be very useful for therapists, healers, and anyone who is passionate about helping other people with their problems.

Q9-Any side effects of EFT?

LENA- EFT is a very safe process because it actually activates the body’s healing potential to heal itself in the most natural and gentle way. However there may be “healing symptoms”, which are similar to effects of detoxification and are the body’s way of clearing those old, stagnated energetic blocks that have been buried within the body for a long time. Some healing symptoms may look like tiredness, headaches, crying for no reasons, bodily aches and tensions. These can also be treated with EFT either at the end of the EFT session or by the client himself or herself.

Lena Chen is a Holistic Therapist who has empowered hundreds of people to free themselves of old self-sabotaging patterns so that they can finally connect with the wisdom and joy that is already within them. She is the author of “Emotional Freedom At Your Fingertips: how to get from PISSED to PEACE in mere minutes with Emotional Freedom Techniques” as well as the creator of the EFT Affirmation Cards. For free weekly inspiring healing insights and tips, subscribe to her highly popular newsletters at her website www.lenashealinghaven.com.

 

 

 

 

 

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Jul 18 2009

Motivating ways for Mothers at home!

Published by Charu M under Self improvement

Family, kids, relationships- priority reasons for all the mothers who decide to stay at home and nurture their family! Its a tough choice in today’s world full of competition.

I wonder if my mom was working and was never around me around those moments when I needed her most and then I would have never got the right direction in my life. Now being a mother I wonder if I am not around my kid around his growing years then how he will get guidance. Then when I think about myself I have to search out for different ways to keep myself motivating to carry over my job of parenting I am doing.  I just thought to look around to search for those motivating  moments in life.

I am blessed to have friends who forward me such motivating mails-

Just a MOM???

SWEET MOMENT

SWEET MOMENT

Oh, this is really good…

“(I am also sharing this with a few men, who I know will understand it)
A woman, renewing her driver’s license at the County Clerk’s office,
was asked by the woman recorder to state her occupation.
She hesitated, uncertain how to classify herself.
“What I mean is, ” explained the recorder,
“do you have a job or are you just a …?”
“Of course I have a job,” snapped the woman.
“I’m a Mom.”
“We don’t list ‘Mom’ as an occupation,
‘housewife’ covers it,”
Said the recorder emphatically.
I forgot all about her story until one day I found myself
in the same situation, this time at our own Town Hall.
The Clerk was obviously a career woman, poised,
efficient, and possessed of a high sounding title like,
“Official Interrogator” or “Town Registrar.”
“What is your occupation?” she probed..

What made me say it? I do not know.
The words simply popped out..
“I’m a Research Associate in the field of
Child Development and Human Relations.”

The clerk paused, ball-point pen frozen in mid air and
looked up as though she had not heard right.
I repeated the title slowly emphasizing the most significant words.
Then I stared with wonder as my pronouncement was written,
in bold, black ink on the official questionnaire.
“Might I ask,” said the clerk with new interest,
“just what you do in your field?”

Coolly, without any trace of fluster in my voice,
I heard myself reply,
“I have a continuing program of research,
(what mother doesn’t)
In the laboratory and in the field,
(normally I would have said indoors and out).
I’m working for my Masters, (first the Lord and then the whole family)
and already have four credits (all daughters).
Of course, the job is one of the most demanding in the human ties,
(any mother care to disagree?)
and I often work 14 hours a day, (24 is more like it).
But the job is more challenging than most run-of-the-mill careers
and the rewards are more of a satisfaction rather than just money.”

There was an increasing note of respect in the clerk’s voice as she
completed the form, stood up, and personally ushered me to the door.

As I drove into our driveway, buoyed up by my glamorous new career,
I was greeted by my lab assistants — ages 13, 7, and 3.
Upstairs I could hear our new experimental model,
(a 6 month old baby) in the child development program,
testing out a new vocal pattern.
I felt I had scored a beat on bureaucracy!
And I had gone on the official records as someone more
distinguished and indispensable to mankind than “just another Mom.”
Motherhood!

What a glorious career!
Especially when there’s a title on the door.

Its motivating in its true sense! Hats off to the person who has written it!

Womenfolk talk about women’s liberation, independence, and other issues but we should definitely not forget to remind ourselves to admire the beauty of  being a mother and how important is our job for us.

Definitely its not easy to make sacrifices always, there are times when you want to use your time your own way but your children are waiting for your attention, but we have to remind ourselves that God has blessed us with this oppurtunity to nurture a life and if we do this whole heartedly then we can create happiness around our children’s life forever. Enjoy your motherhood to extreme because time will fly away and you will never realize when your nest becomes an empty one.

Happy motherhood!


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Feb 25 2009

Counting on your talents in this time of Recession!

Recession and job cut-offs, are the hottest topics been discussed worldwide!

Every other company is thinking of reducing its staff or reducing the perks being enjoyed by the employees. The oldest and the youngest employees of the company are the easy targets for cut-offs. How to safeguard your job is the common concern for every professional. Suddenly professionals have become very active for their work. They are working overtime, trying to deliver their projects before deadline, and constantly trying to hone their skills to match the market requirements.

Its really unsecure to depend upon your job only for survival. Does’nt it makes you realize that you have to have some other survival kit in your hand, so that at the time of crisis you are just not dependent on your job only. With time while working, performing only one type of job makes you dependent on that work only. These times demand alertness now. You have to be aware about yourself very well. Keep honing your other talents as well. You never know when you have to use them in life for generating income.

You can be a good singer, dancer, good at arts, drama, computers, cooking, or in some other field. The point is that with time do you keep in touch with your talent. And that’s the key to feel secured. Obviously you won’t be generating  same amount of salary as you were doing before. It may take some time but your family won’t be on roads at least.

Start thinking how talented you are as you never know which new talent you can come across.Just start exploring yourself !

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