Jun 09 2010

3 Ways to Involve Yourself in your child’s Education!

Published by Charu M under Parenting

In today’s busy pace of life we at times wonder that how we can possibly involve our self or show interest in our child’s education!

As both parents are working it is not possible for them to put much time with their kids for their studies. It is also possible that you have never performed well in school and never excelled in mathematics and then you are not eager to involve yourself in your kid’s studies as you are reminded about your days.

Getting involved with children in their studies does not mean that you have to involve yourself in your child studies

Simple ways like listed below can definitely help you to relate to your child through studies-

1.Show interest in what they are learning. Do ask them”What did you do at school today? Then you can discuss about what are his problems in any particular subject or what is it that he likes most. Try to make your conversation very light one not like a strict parent.

2.Do find time to attend his school meets and various other programmes. You can participate also in some activities which involves parents and kids both. This will boost his morale.Try to go to his co-curricular classes, sports classes and discuss with him about his interests.

3.What type of environment you have created at home also effects your child’s personality. Buy books, magazines. Provide him  all those extra resources that will help him in studies. If he will never see you involved in some type of study then he will never get motivation. Try to discuss about books he is reading from the library.

These activities will help you in better understanding of school activities. You can observe how well your kid is performing and progressing. Besides this it gives a chance to parent to personally interact with his child and thus helps in strengthening their relationships. When your child will see that his parent is so involved in his activities then his self esteem will increase. He will grow with a positive attitude in life and will excel in all spheres.

 

 

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Jun 01 2010

Sex and the City-2

Published by Charu M under Woman issues

I really had fun watching movie Sex and the City!
 
I watched the first day show so never cared to read any review and I am thankful to myself for taking this decision. At times I feel that it is not necessary to make any opinion  regarding any movie or any book too based on reviews written about them. Every individual has his own way of thinking and its not necessary what you like I will like too and vice-versa.
Movie SATC2  is based on bonding between bestselling author Carrie (Sarah Jessica Parker), mother-of-two Charlotte (Kristin Davis), workaholic lawyer Miranda (Cynthia Nixon), and single Samantha (Kim Cattrall). They are true friends and always there for each other at the time of need. Leaving the sexual content of the movie which was really meant for rate R, storyline of the movie is quite near to any female heart. Whether we talk about the scene in which  in their private bar, Charlotte and Miranda share about the hardships of motherhood and then raise their glasses to moms who “don’t have help,” by which they mean paid servants.I just loved the way Charlotte confessed about her first thought, when she feared about her hubby’s interest in her hot nanny, that she never wanted to loose good nanny, was really true to heart. In life at times we behave like that, Isn’t it?We just let things happen the way they are because we really really don’t want to loose the comfort zone we have.
Samantha  is, as ever, the  promiscuous publicist, while Carrie and Big live in a plushly feathered uptown apartment. She’s  a writer and  he’s working in Wall Street. Charlotte and Harry are the loving parents of two young daughters. Miranda  has settled in Brooklyn with her husband, Steve and son, Brady. But everything is not perfect as Charlotte is worried her husband  is romancing with their hot new nanny.  Miranda is acting as the group’s warden. Samantha, meanwhile, is having difficulty in a country like Abu Dhabi where kissing in public is apparently punishable by law. Samantha also frets about the onset of menopause, and doses herself with hormones and lotions. Miranda has a mean, sexist boss at the law firm.She’s also stressed out by parenthood.Carrie and Big, meanwhile,receive  pity from other couples because of their decision to remain childless. “You mean it’s just the two of you?” a fellow guest at a wedding asks, incredulous. 

The story turns gruelling , especially when the action moves to the Middle East. Some incidences like a stolen kiss, a lost passport, the appearance of a former lover  gives story a baseline but  extreme happens when Samantha runs into trouble with the local people. In other country you have to show respect to the religion which they follow and any sensible lady will try to do it but showing sexual freedom in such scenario cannot be termed as sensible behaviour.

Every character of the movie has its own personality which we can easily locate around us in real world.What I loved in the movie is bonding between four girls and the way they helped each other. Do watch!

 

 

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May 24 2010

Activity with kids-Card games!(1)

Published by Charu M under Parenting

 

Playing cards have always been a fun part of every family and has helped in bonding between family members.Portable, cost effective and easy to handle, makes the set of cards a must to have by every family, specially with kids.

I was never aware that playing card can not only bond various family members but also kids of the family can get benefited from it.

Card games can help them in improving their addition skills, logical skills, eye coordination and memory skills too.

A playing card is a piece of specially prepared heavy  paper, thin card, or thin plastic, figured with distinguishing motifs and used as one of a set for playing card games Playing cards are typically palm-sized for convenient handling.

A complete set of cards is called a pack or deck, and the set of cards held at one time by a player during a game is commonly called their hand. A deck of cards may be used for playing a great variety of card games. Because playing cards are both standardized and commonly available, they are often adapted for other uses, such as magic tricks, encryption, boardgames, or building house of cards.

The front (or “face”) of each card carries markings that distinguish it from the other cards in the deck and determine its use under the rules of the game being played. The back of each card is identical for all cards in any particular deck, and usually of a single color or formalized design. The back of playing cards is sometimes used for advertising. For most games, the cards are assembled into a deck, and their order is by shuffling.

Cards are inexpensive, easily portable and endlessly adaptable. Families can enjoy a game together, kids can play in groups on their own, and a solitary child can while away the hours playing “solitaire” games or building card houses. We have many suggestions below.

Instructions:
Select a number of pairs of cards appropriate to your child. Older children can use the whole pack of 52.
 

Shuffle, and spread all the cards out face down on the table between the players (you can either choose a random arrangement, or lay the cards out in grid form; the latter makes it easier to remember where cards are placed).

The object of the game is to find matching pairs. Players take it in turns to turn over 2 cards. Let all the players see them and study them. If they are not a matching pair, try to remember what and where they are, then turn them back over. Play then passes to the next player. If they are a matching pair, that player removes them from the table and keeps them, and then has another turn.

When all cards have been removed from the table, each player counts up the number of cards they have collected. The player with the most cards is the winner.

Easy Snap

Extremely good for younger children, this variation of the game has only one central, face-up snap pile. The players each add a new card to the snap pile until the top card matches the one beneath it. The first player to shout “snap” takes the whole central pile and adds them to the bottom of his own face-down stack.

If a player runs out of cards, he is out. The winner is the player who ends up with all the cards.

 

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May 17 2010

Teachers are Special!

Published by Charu M under Woman issues

It is said that “Teaching is the profession that teaches all the other professions”. Teachers are considered to be builders of future pillars of our country. They should be given respect and motivation for the work they are doing.0511-1003-1714-4754_teacher_character_writing_on_a_dry_erase_board_clipart_image

Teachers have their own reasons for not taking their work seriously and the most common is that they are underpaid. I want to request the concerned authorities that they should include the teaching profession in the highly paid job list so that we can have talented teachers around.

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Apr 26 2010

Act of Kindness!

Published by Charu M under Woman issues

Kindness , as a definition can be defined as the act of being kind  marked by charitable behaviour, pleasantness, tenderness and concern for others.

In today’s times when every individual is running for something or the other and has no time to think about himself also then concept of kindness is loosing its impact. We have become robots who are programmed to just think about their goals and achievements and dreams. Whole day passes off  with activities related to individuals aspirations. Hats off to those people who can manage to take out time to carry out activities nurturing kindness, love, affection around.

There are so many ways through which you can show kindness to others. Small small activities if carried out in our mundane  days  can lead to precious moments of life filled with happiness and joy. In fact researches show that kindness can also make us happier. People who perform such activities like holding door open for a stranger, doing a friend’s dishes at her place, helping oldies to carry out their baggage’s have higher level of happiness. It makes no difference whether you are helping a loved one or a stranger but a small anonymous act might make you feel like a very good person.

Kindness also helps in keeping yourself  healthy.Helpful people are less likely to fall ill from chronic diseases and tended to have better immune system. Kindness also helps in regulating emotions which has a very positive impact on our health. There is this person named Villaveces who lives in Sydney with his family. He started doing act of kindness after getting inspired by someone who despite of living a very difficult life was able to maintain his generosity. Villaveces started a concept of giving out a card with each act of kindness and it asks the recipient to pass out the good deed to other person.  Visit  his website www.pifaustralia.org  to track the progress of the cards. Very interesting attempt I must say and that too for a virtue, this makes it a nobel concept which needs more volunteers.

In the series of noble attempts there is must read book and must watch movie called ‘Pay it Forward’ where a troubled school boy decided to start repaying every good deed done to him by performing three good deeds to others. Being a mother we can teach kids about this noble virtue and help them in building empathy by encouraging them to understand how others might be feeling.

Let’s start training ourselves to be kinder and then it can be our  attitude that you carry with you always which can create difference in other’s life.

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