Women Lines

It matters to me!

At times I find being a woman is not an easy job and definitely not to mention to be an Ideal women. I wonder where those ideal women resides who perform all roles of being a wife, a mother, an employee, a daughter and a DIL, sister, friend and so many not to mention , with perfection. Will really love to meet one if she really exists in today’s  complex world!

World in which we are living today is though a blessing for today’s women. I am not talking about women liberation , or equal right distribution for women in our society. I want to focus on the multitudes of spheres in one life where women has to focus and work upon. As technology is making our life easy we are having other constraints to manage our life in an orderly fashion. In whole world around women issues start from the talk about being financially independent, she studies hard, builds a space for herself in society and gets married and becomes responsible for the welfare of the new family she has entered.Then starts her life managing herself, her office, her husband, her family and going forward kids come in picture.

Its matter of justifying all roles together.As an ideal women she should be a great cook who can prepare awesome lunch boxes, dinner and snacks for the family. As an employee she should be giving her best performance in office, prepare all reports timely, prepare excellent presentations and above all reply to all her mails…..wink wink:)! As a DIL  she should be taking care of her in laws, respect them , follow all family rituals, fasts, attend all function and entertain all guests with perfection. As a mother she should be always playful, ready for arguments, should always listen to her kid  and spend quality time with him.Then as a friend she should spend take out time for her friend, go for outings, shopping, movie time, invite for dinners, and much more. And mind you all roles have to be delivered in 24 hrs duration.

Hey , I forgot to mention role of being herself. As an individual she should be spending time with herself, take care of her health, body, exercise, eat healthy food, watch her favourite shows and movie, meditate, go to spas and lots more.

Is this job easy?I wonder!

But I enjoy being women.There is so much to do. Let’s not focus on ideal clause for being a women then you wont be under stress and enjoy your womanhood more. Its all about time management which we learn slowly by practise. Its also about taking one step at a time and multitasking those steps together. Balancing can only be achieved with a calmer mind so every women on this earth should exercise and meditate to discover herself. Think of at least 15 mins my time in whole day schedule where u do something for just your own happiness and I think it can do wonders in any women life.

I strongly believe that any family’s happiness lies in the happiness if the lady of the house. If she is not happy, unwell, frustrated then side effects start appearing on whole family. If we love our family then we have to take care of ourselves and start trying to find ways  to make ourselves happy.

So cheer up my fellow women, don’t stress yourself to be an ideal women. Have a vision for yourself and multitask allyour roles with perfection!

 Andre Maurois, French novelist and essayist, wrote, “A happy marriage is a long conversation which always seems too short”

Do you agree with it! Well, ideally every couple should be talking to each other rather than talking at each other. But life is not that ideal my friends and every couple goes through up and downs of relationships where at times it’s challenging to come over few issues. I really find it interesting to observe how various couples interact with each other and how well they know about each other. When as a couple we are talking to each other then we are giving undivided attention to our partner. Reason for a proper communication is to remain connected to each other. When we communicate as a couple we have our feelings and thoughts heard and respected. Whenever any problem or issues arises then we can sort out through positive communication. In fact to reach out to solutions also we have to communicate properly so that we can reach an understanding of one another. 

There are few topics which are common between couples to always discuss like- weather, kids, jobs, money, health issues, friends etc. But effort should be made that always we are not talking about same issues everyday. Life will become monotonous, isn’t it?

1.Couples can plan about their future trips and vacations.

2.Share about some new thing you discovered throughout the day

3.Take out time to share about your childhood memories.

4.Share about things you would like to experience in life.

5.Have an interesting discussion ‘If you could?  Do you believe…..

What ever topic you  are taking up think out of box how to add spice to your relationship and how to make communication fun between you and your partner!

Are you having troubles in understanding each other in your marriage! Watch movie Fireproof.

Never leave your partner behind ….. with this message behind , Fireproof is an awesome movie, and a must watch for every married couple, no matter at what stage of marriage you are. Its about love, hatred, sacrifices, ego, attitude, compassion, gratitude and much more.

The gripping story follows one man’s desire to transform his life and marriage through healing power of faith. Kirk Cameron as Caleb Holt, a heroic fire captain who values dedication and service to others above all else.At home, in the cooling embers of his marriage, he lives by his own rules. The most important partnership, his marriage, is about to go in smoke. Growing up, Catherine Holt(Caleb’s wife) always dreamed of marrying a loving, brave firefighter…just like her daddy. Now, after seven years of marriage, Catherine wonders when she stopped being “good enough” for her husband. Regular arguments over jobs, finances, housework, and outside interests have readied them both to move on to something with more sparks.   How he comes out of this situation, how he faces all oddities and his ego problems, the story has no loopholes and you will never leave your seat till end. Its such an inspiring story.

FIREPROOF is the third movie co-written and directed by Alex Kendrick. Along with his brother Stephen, Alex has written FLYWHEEL and FACING THE GIANTS, the surprise theatrical hit of 2006. 

If you really love your partner and want to improve upon your relationship, grab the DVD of Fireproof!