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What Would Your Life Look Like If You Didn’t Tolerate Anything That Was Not Working?

Womenlines takes pleasure to share about Leadership Coach Sally Anderson as a guest influencer for Leadership at Womenlines panel from New Zealand. Sally has privately coached key influencers internationally: CEO’s/executive teams/C-Suite forums/entrepreneurs/celebrities/politicians/millionaires/billionaires over 20 years. This week Sally is sharing insights related to a thought-provoking question that ‘ What Would Your Life Look Like If You Didn’t Tolerate Anything That Was Not Working?’-

Interesting question right? The look on clients faces when I first pose this question is ALWAYS classic!

Confusion is the first default response – what do you mean Sally? Is that really possible?

Yep you bet, let me explain….

All very well to get clear on what your goals are but what’s the point unless you unearth the undercurrent pulling you in the opposite direction aka ‘what you tolerate’ – distinction toleration: Persistent Complaint

I believe most human beings have a minimum of 50 tolerations, yep 50, even if I do not know you I could identify what they are based on research through the 1000’s of people I have had the privilege to coach over 3 decades and basically it just comes with the ‘human territory’.

What are they? Here are the main ones:-

We all have them and we operate over the top to them EVERYDAY

Some examples:-

You get the gist, could keep going…

Tolerations can be BIG or SMALL but they are irritating, annoying, frustrating, constant

Step#1 – Unearth what they are

Step#2 – Go to work on them with timeline and action – keep chipping away each, week/month

Cycle the process every 3-6 months

and if you do not then just get that you are more committed to sabotage! Raw truth!

Whatever you complain about persistently is a toleration and folks if you are complaining about it, you LOVE IT! Why because you keep it in place! Just bloody ludicrous but all human beings do it! 

There is a difference to being committed to what is yet to materialise and complaining about it but doing nothing about it!

I personally do not complain, why, because I know that I have choice moment by moment what my world looks like and I am not committed to spending time into negative affirmations, it’s just crazy!

I am frustrated at a level with standard coaching that blindly focus on goal setting devoid of unearthing tolerations for unless distinguished it is energy that is constantly taking you in the opposite direction to your goals!

Living a complaint free life is priceless….do not get me wrong there are many things that I am yet to accomplish in my life but I am vigilant with not complaining about it – I know the importance of beliefs, language and resonance and take responsibility in accordance. I am the creator of my reality moment by moment and do not have time to complain PERIOD – it also stops ANY drama in your life, how refreshing is that as a reality!

Bottomline – if you are not committed to rectifying what is not working, STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT IT!

Food for thought today!

Sally Anderson

Sally Anderson

CEO/C-Suite Leadership Coach

Sally partner’s CEO’s/C-Suite Leadership Executives/Key Influencer’s Achieve Unprecedented ‘Sustainable’ RESULTS!

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