It just dawned upon me that we are in dearth of closer relationships in comparison to our previous generation!
True relationships are rare these days. As we get busier with our lives we devote less time to our relations and one day suddenly you realize that there is no warmth in your relationship. At times I think that friends, with whom you interact more become more closer to you than your relatives. I wonder how to make such relationships more closer and stronger where everybody only says I am fine!
Honest relationships are those where you really care for the person and are really hurt if you find the other person sad. Many times husband wife relationship becomes formal when both start saying to each other I am fine, what about you? Its odd, you stay together, eat together, have same family and still are not aware about your partner’s dream. That’s the loophole of any relationship. Be it friend, relative, husband, wife or even with kids. Demand for today’s time is to have verbal relationship. We say we don’t want to speak others feeling by speaking to him about his shortcomings. But then you are spoiling the relationship. Life is like really a puzzle, you don’t speak when you are required to speak, and you only speak when you are not required to speak.
Effort should be made to know the otherside completely. How you can aspect the other person open to you when you are not ready to listen to him. If you are not interested in his dreams, his likes, dislikes, what he thinks about other issues then why he will give you importance. Try creating interest in relationship and thats the key to any successful relationship!
A day of love, a day for romance, a day to admire your Valentine, thats the Valentine day!
Every year this day comes with lots of celebration around. Young couples can be spotted with roses and chocolates to gift each other. Media hype and smart marketing has branded this day to some extent. Its a day to express your love to your sweetheart, to surprise him with some special gift and spend some quality time with him.. Some couples are not in favour of celebrating valentines day as they say that for them every day is a valentine day when they can express their love for each other. They may sound right, If you really love some person by heart then why to wait for some particular day to express your love. Sounds interesting!
Whatever the reason still valentine day has its importance. Just depends upon you that how you want to celebrate. Its easy to splurge money and gift your sweetheart a lavish dinner and costly gift. Why not take this day with some different approach to bring some spice in your love life.Try to be very creative with your gift. Take it as a challenge, both of you, to buy gift in certain amount only which is minimal. Or waken the inner poet within you and express your love in words to your beloved. A very creative way of celebrating the day was seen in Singapore. One guy planned his dinner with his sweetheart at beach. He set up a table very close to water waver, cooked the dinner himself and invited his girlfriend for this surprise dinner.Moreover he carried his guitar with himself and sang beautiful songs for his sweetheart. That lovely candlelight dinner will be always a memorable one for his lover.
The point is to spend some quality time with each other. Gifts are the ways to reflect your love for your sweetheart. It will not be effective by its cost but definitely how thoughtful were you with your idea.